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The FAQs of Life

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God-realization, is it necessary?

Answer by Paramahamsa Hariharananda

Yes, because everybody wants happiness, peace, and bliss. Real happiness is extremely rare in this world. People pass through phases of pleasure and similar dualities and wrongly call it happiness. Ultimately this gives rise to more delusion, illusion and error, and real happiness remains far away. The real happiness is obtained only when we reach the infinite source of happiness. This happiness is a state of existence and is not dependent on the transient, death-prone nervous phenomena of pleasure and pain and other dualities. This infinite source is nothing but our own Self otherwise known as Atma, Paramatma, Spirit, Soul or God. So, God-realization is a must for real happiness.

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Is it possible to practice Kriya Yoga while leading a family life?

Answer by Paramahamsa Hariharananda

Yes, Kriya Yoga is meant for householders mainly. Ascetics and sannyasis (monks) have enough time and the appropriate environment to do elaborate spiritual practices. It is the householder who faces many difficulties in doing sadhana (spiritual practice). Kriya is ideal for them.

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Can a person who practices other techniques also practice Kriya Yoga?
 

Answer by Paramahamsa Hariharananda

If you are satisfied with your techniques and from them you are getting peace, bliss, joy and divinity within, then ask your conscience. Once you have gotten an answer, remain calm.
Many roads take you to Delhi. In the same way, many take you to God. But follow only one to the end.
If you go to a doctor and take the medicine he prescribes to you, and then decide to go to another doctor and take his as well as the other's medicine, instead of health you will find death. If you go to a third doctor you will find death even faster. When you cross a river, if you put a foot in one boat and the other foot on the other boat you will drown for sure.
Observe the bee. If it does not find honey in one flower, it will fly to another flower. If you taste an apple and it is bad, you will not eat it, but you will have had to taste it in order to know that it is bad.
If you have found peace and love, and you are receiving divinity from it, and have found a true guru, follow him step by step and be generous in your surrender to him.

Can fasting be used as a means to cleanse and purify the body?​​

Answer by Paramahamsa Hariharananda

The word fasting comes from the Sanskrit upabasha which means “to sit by the side of God.”
Here the word fasting has a different meaning from its normal use. To stop eating so as to achieve purity does not correspond with reality. Food is God, annamayakosha. From food we obtain vitality and energy. The Shastras (the sacred writings from India) say, “One must take abundant light from the sun.”
From anna (food) we obtain prana (life-force or vital energy); by magnetizing this energy, one achieves surprising results in the realm of spiritual realization.
But fasting could bring problems, pains and ills of all sorts. Also, we must keep in mind that cleaning the physical body does not mean that the mind is being purified. We must admit that it is more difficult to purify the mind than it is to clean the physical body.
One can take bucketfuls of water, even stay inside the water for hours, but this does not make anybody pure.
To eat or to fast or not to eat certain foods—these are all things that belong to the mind. Where imagination stops, realization starts; where the emotions, taste and bias stop, meditation begins—the state without movement.

What is yoga?

Answer by Paramahamsa Yogananda

Yoga means union. Etymologically, it is connected to the English word, yoke. Yoga means union with God, or, union of the little, ego-self with the divine Self, the infinite Spirit.
Most people in the West, and also many in India, confuse yoga with Hatha Yoga, the system of bodily postures. But yoga is primarily a spiritual discipline.
I don't mean to belittle the yoga postures. Hatha Yoga is a wonderful system. The body, moreover, is a part of our human nature, and must be kept fit lest it obstruct our spiritual efforts. Devotees, however, who are bent on finding God give less importance to the yoga postures. Nor is it strictly necessary that they practice them.
Hatha Yoga is the physical branch of Raja Yoga, the true science of yoga. Raja Yoga is a system of meditation techniques that help to harmonize human consciousness with the divine consciousness
Yoga is an art as well as a science. It is a science, because it offers practical methods for controlling body and mind, thereby making deep meditation possible. And it is an art, for unless it is practiced intuitively and sensitively it will yield only superficial results.
Yoga is not a system of beliefs. It takes into account the influence on each other of body and mind, and brings them into mutual harmony. So often, for instance, the mind cannot concentrate simply because of tension or illness in the body, which prevent the energy from flowing to the brain. So often, too, the energy in the body is weakened because the will is dispirited, or paralyzed by harmful emotions.
Yoga works primarily with the energy in the body, through the science of pranayama, or energy-control. Prana means also ‘breath.’ Yoga teaches how, through breath-control, to still the mind and attain higher states of awareness.
The higher teachings of yoga take one beyond techniques, and show the yogi, or yoga practitioner, how to direct his concentration in such a way as not only to harmonize human with divine consciousness, but to merge his consciousness in the Infinite.
Yoga is a very ancient science; it is thousands of years old. The perceptions derived from its practice form the backbone of the greatness of India, which for centuries has been legendary. The truths espoused in the yoga teachings, however, are not limited to India, nor to those who consciously practice yoga techniques. Many saints of other religions also, including many Christian saints, have discovered aspects of the spiritual path that are intrinsic to the teachings of yoga.
A number of them were what Indians, too, would accept as great yogis.
They had raised their energy from body-attachment to soul-identity.
They had discovered the secret of directing the heart's feeling upward in devotion to the brain, instead of letting it spill outward in restless emotions.
They had discovered the portal of divine vision at the point between the eyebrows, through which the soul passes to merge in Christ Consciousness.
They had discovered the secrets of breathlessness, and how in breathlessness the soul can soar to the spiritual heights.
They had discovered the state which some of them called mystical marriage, where the soul merges with God and becomes one with Him.
Yoga completes the biblical teaching on how one should love God: with heart, mind, soul-and strength. For strength means energy.
The ordinary person’s energy is locked in his body. The lack of availability of that energy to his will prevents him from loving the Lord one-pointedly with any of the three other aspects of his nature: heart, mind, or soul. Only when the energy can be withdrawn from the body and directed upward in deep meditation is true inner communion possible.

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What happens to those who try to reach God without the benefit of yoga techniques?

Answer by Paramahamsa Yogananda

A few of them are successful, if they came into this life with strong spiritual karma from the past. The great majority, however, even if they start out on the path with enthusiasm, gradually become discouraged.
‘Where is that God,’ they ask finally, ‘to Whom I've been praying all these years?’ They attain a little inner peace, but over the years their prayers become increasingly a matter of habit, less one of inspiration.
Rarely, in the West, have the centuries seen such great saints as there have been in India.

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